7 Tips To Move Past Fear and Start

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Your palms sweat and stomach churns. You mentally tell yourself, “It’s alright, I will definitely start tomorrow.”

Be it writing a book, starting a business or just trying something new, starting is very hard.

These seven tips will help you take the most important step in any project: start.

1. You are never ready.  You never will be. It’s easy to rationalize and say that you need more training, but in reality you might just be making excuses. Start anyways and you’ll be able to find things that need improvement, instead of hypothetical excuses that stop you from pursuing your dreams.

2. No one is an expert. Sure, there are always others further along in their journey, but they still make mistakes and have to learn from those mistakes, just like you. At one point, I was intimidated by other bloggers like Jeremy Statton and Jon Acuff. Now I am friends with them and view them as peers.

3. Almost everything takes longer than you want it to. Accept this and get to work anyways. Patience will most likely be a struggle for you. That’s alright. Instead of spending time worrying about why you haven’t achieved something, get back to work.

4. Success needs to be defined. Define what you are going after. Otherwise, it will not be achievable no matter how well you do. If you want to sell 10,000 books say so. If you want to be self-employed, set a goal for your first year’s profit for an actual number like $40,000.

5. Try not to compare yourself to others. I know it’s really hard not to, but you might be in the beginning phase and you are comparing your beginning phase to someone else’s middle (or even ending). If you find this impossible not to do, meet with others you can learn from and get guidance from them. That is the smart way to handle this as opposed to worrying or stressing about it. Form relationships and friendships, so you can help each other out.

6. Social media can easily steal all of your time. It’s great for networking and building relationships, but remember you need to focus on the work at hand. The work is the reason to be using social media, not the other way around.

7. You are in sales and/or marketing no matter what you do. You have to market yourself to land any job. You have to sell a good or service or you will not get any income. You are even marketing yourself when you recruit others to join you as you start a project. Keep this in mind as you move forward.

 

What is a tip that you have about starting?

 

 

  • http://randomlychad.com Chad Jones

    There is a reason things are hard–we are opposed. There is an enemy of our souls who has a vested interest in us not achieving our dreams. Whither doubt, discouragement, despair? They come from the voices we choose to listen to. We must resist the resistance.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      So well said Chad: “We must resist the resistance.” I love that. Can I tweet that out? I just love how that reads and sounds.

  • http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

    One thing that’s really helped me with the last one is actually working in marketing. Sure, I’m marketing a company not myself but it’s helped me think in terms of marketing. I’ve come up with more clever marketing ideas that don’t feel like shameless self-promotion.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      That’s fantastic Katie. Shameless self-promotion is a drag for sure; clever ideas are ALWAYS in demand. Very, very cool.

  • http://www.facebook.com/yvette.carol Yvette Carol

    Jim, there was a guy on my online writing group the other day, who said he hadn’t written anything in ages. He’d jumped on to our social group, to kick-start himself. I wanted to say, if you want to start writing then get out a pen and paper and write!! Ha ha, pretty simple :-)

  • http://blog.travishinkle.com/ Travis Hinkle

    Great tips, Jim. I know for me personally, it’s easy to get stuck in the research phase. I love trying to figure out every nook and cranny before I tackle something. Its good to be well-educated but it can also delay getting started on the real task at hand.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Travis, I couldn’t agree more! I asked Steven Pressfield about this exact topic because it is such a challenge for me too. He told me something I think is fantastic; “If there is any doubt, it’s resistance.” I hope you find this useful as well for research.

      • http://blog.travishinkle.com/ Travis Hinkle

        Sounds like it’s straight out of “Do The Work”! :)

  • http://intentionaltoday.com/ Ngina Otiende

    i love #2 Jim – no one is really an expert. “Expert-ship” used to really intimidate me, i’d look around and see others who are super brilliant/gifted/more successful and wonder if i have anything to offer, if anyone will listen to me. i have since come to understand that people don’t listen to words only, but they hear the person behind the words. It’s not just a story to share, but your angle (which includes your passion, background e.t.c). It can be the same dish (since there is nothing new under the sun), just a different flavor. There’s always an audience/reader/e.t.c for your ‘different dish’ :)

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Thanks Ngina! I couldn’t agree more-”Expert-ship” can stop us from doing anything great if we let it. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • http://twitter.com/Prathiiiii Prathipa

    Wonderful jeff! As usual, as i say, its very much right on time for me!!! I hope it will be for others too..u rock dear friend…

  • Jesse Moore

    Treat it like a job from the start because that’s what you want it to become.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      That is awesome Jesse! Well said. Thanks so much for sharing.

  • http://rebootingworship.com/ Jamie Kocur

    Plan out your practice time. This was the big one for me. I was just practicing aimlessly until I had specific things to accomplish.

    The other thing I would say is to surround yourself with support; for encouragement and accountability.