The One App You Need To Avoid

Photo by Jamie Kocur

This guest post is from my friend Jamie Kocur. She is a musician, songwriter, writer, and  occasional worship leader who blogs about worship and her struggles with it at Rebooting Worship. Jamie is also one of the nicest people you will ever meet. You can follow her on Twitter at @jamiekocur.

My husband surprised me with an iPhone for my birthday. I was ecstatic, and eager to dive into all the fun and useful apps that the iPhone has to offer. I envisioned utilizing apps that would catapult my productivity as I pursue my dream of working with music and writing.

Unfortunately, I discovered the Sims, a fun, sunny, interactive world that you create online.

The Sims is an incredibly addictive game. It’s filled with virtual people that you have to take care of and tell what to do. These little guys won’t even use the bathroom until you tell them to.

It started out innocent enough. It was a fun little distraction from my day, and a treat for myself when I was done with whatever work I had set for myself.

Then it got ugly. Pretty soon I was checking on my little Sims five, six, or even more times a day.

“It’s 5:00! Time to send Maria to work!”

“Andras is starving! I must feed him!”

As you advance in the game, you add more characters and the Sims world gets bigger. You build their cute little houses and even adding a little Sim baby. The more Sims you have, the more time consuming the game becomes. Soon, every time I was “just checking on them” turned into a 30-minute ordeal. These guys are needy!

Each 30-minute session took 30 minutes away from work I needed to be doing on my dream.

Games aren’t bad. I think when used effectively, they’re a great way to give your brain some down time. Unfortunately, as in my case, they can become an addiction and problem. My Sims took away important time that I can never get back.

Enough is enough. I had to pull the plug. I deleted the app.

What app (or other vice) do you highly recommend avoiding? Please share in the comments. Thanks!
  • http://rise365.com/ Michael Good

    I’d have to say social media in general. I can get really scatter brained and jump from one thing to another for way too long!

    • http://rebootingworship.com/ Jamie Kocur

      Oh goodness. Me too. I’m really trying to reign that in a bit. I feel like I’ve become ADD with all this social media stuff. It’s hard for me to focus. 

  • http://randomlychad.com Chad Jones

    How long do you have?

    For me, there’s

    Twitter

    Words With Friends

    Draw Something

    Hanging With Friends

    WordPress for iOS

    Those are my “killer” apps. Best not ask my wife how much time is spent on them, ok? ;-)

    • http://rebootingworship.com/ Jamie Kocur

      Ha! She’d be the one to know!

      • http://randomlychad.com Chad Jones

        Too true. Altogether too true.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Chad, do you ever have any issues using WordPress for iOS? Every time I try to reply to a comment on there it never actually shows up anywhere. NOW THAT’S A TIME-WASTER! 

      • http://randomlychad.com Chad Jones

        Jim, I have had, but because–like you–I have Disqus, I usually just reply via email.

  • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

    Jamie, I’d say my “guilty app” would be Twitter. I don’t recommend avoiding it altogether, but I know I need to be aware of how much I time I am ACTUALLY spending on it. 

    • http://rebootingworship.com/ Jamie Kocur

      Yup. I’m discovering that too. Hence my hesitation to join for so long. Moderation is key.

    • http://rise365.com/ Michael Good

      Jim,
      Twitter can do it for me too. Or, even more so, Facebook. Facebook has a way of getting me further and further down the rabbit hole. There’s something about all the photos, comments, and links right there.

      • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

        Absolutely! It all starts on one main page and leads toward endless clicking on many other pages doesn’t it! Thankfully, I think there are some amazing tools out there to help (Cold Turkey for Windows and Anti-Social for Mac come to mind). And NOTHING beats some good ol’ fashioned self-discipline. (I’m working on that. I’m getting there…slowly, but surely.) 

  • http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

    I just added the Personal Hotspot feature to my iPhone meaning I now have internet at home. Even though this is my first time using it, I can already tell internet time will not be as “cherished” as it was when I had to go to the coffee shop. Instead of being productive and efficient, I’m more likely to be flippant and careless with my time.
    Katie

    • http://rebootingworship.com/ Jamie Kocur

      It’s so true. The internet is a wonderful thing, but such a time sucker. I’m finding that with internet at my fingertips ALL the time, I have to be very diligent about putting the phone DOWN.

  • http://deuceology.wordpress.com Larry Carter

    I would say none.  My wife might say TweetDeck. :)

    • http://rebootingworship.com/ Jamie Kocur

      Nice. I’ll go with her answer.

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    That’s qutie the story Jamie! And one I can relate to. The current app to avoid is Draw Some. It’s an addicting app in the vein of Pictionary. I find hours of my day drained by it. 

    • http://rebootingworship.com/ Jamie Kocur

      Yes, I’ve heard about that one. I’ve been curious but perhaps it’s best to avoid it. :)

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