How To Have A Successful Guest Post

Photo by Richard Moross

Guest posting is a fantastic way to reach a new audience with your blog. Most importantly, it is also a way to strengthen your relationships with others.

I’ve been fortunate to guest post on several blogs and also to have several guest posts and interviews on this blog.

In this process, I have discovered some of the do’s and don’ts of guest posting.

Do: 

Be nice. Always be nice; it’s that simple.

Be respectful. You are asking for the greatest gift a blogger can give; the blogger’s home. Be extra respectful of this when guest posting.

Make sure the post fits. Read the blog and if there are requirements, carefully read those.

Form a relationship first, if possible. Familiarity brings comfort. You trust someone you know more than a total stranger.

Promote your guest post. Tell others about it via social media. Tweet about it. Post it on Facebook. 

Thank the host for the opportunity. Courtesy goes a long way.

Realize the work will be edited. Your post might look different when it posts.

Reply to the comments. Don’t ever overlook this.

Communicate. Give the host your bio and links to your blog and Twitter and/or Facebook. If you are going to be out of town on the scheduled day of your post, let the host know. He or she might be able to push you forward or bump you back a week.

 

Don’t

Be rude. Passionate can EASILY be interpreted as rude. (This is the ultimate rookie mistake. Of course I never* have done this…)

Email repeatedly asking for a response without a reasonable time frame. You will most likely get an email reply if you follow the tips above. If you don’t get a response within a week, then you can send another follow-up email.

Worry about traffic. Blogging is about forming relationships, not numbers.

Make it resistance. Don’t fixate on one guest post as your new goal as a blogger.

Be arrogant. It never, ever ends well and turns people away.

Be offended if you get  rejected. See if you can ask why the post was rejected. And you can always send the post to other blogs.

Forget to include a picture. Many blogs include pictures. If you include a good picture, it makes things easier for the host.

Guest posting can be a fantastic experience for a blogger. I challenge you to guest post for the right reasons: to strengthen relationships and to form new ones. Now I must confess I’m struggling with a lot of these don’ts too.  Please don’t feel I am picking on you and excluding myself. Not at all. I’m a work in progress. But the key is, I am growing. I challenge you to grow too.

If you are a blogger and you are serious about writing, it’s time to start guest posting. Go for it!**

 

*total lie

**1 batch of home made chocolate chip cookies is required to guest post for me or a Jimi Hendrix cd.

 

  • http://twitter.com/wellbywednesday David Ramos

    Really appreciate these! I can definitely see where I’m doing good and where I have work to do.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Glad to help David! It took quite a while for me to realize what I was doing right and doing wrong!

  • http://randomlychad.com Chad Jones

    Love this, Jim! Practical, actionable steps to guessing success. Want you to know that I had a very pleasant experience guesting for you.

    You are getting it done, man!

  • http://twitter.com/tdiddy1234 Todd Foley

    Hmmm…I’d better get on that! ;)

  • cathloves

    Hello! This is fab, thank you for these tips! Can I ask a question about ettiquette? Do we ask to guest post, or are we asked? Because I would love to guest post (what a privilege!) but I’m not really sure how to start!
    Cath

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      You are so welcome! I don’t think it matters if you ask or are asked, as long as there is a relationship there. I never just asked someone who I don’t know at all (i.e. have not commented on their blog or interacted with at least some on Twitter.) I think that is rude to just ask and not have ANY relationship whatsoever. I’m sure some might disagree, but my approach is always more relationship based. Thanks for asking Cath!

  • http://twitter.com/KTLaBlanc Kirsten

    Hi Jim. Great advice! I’m just starting to venture into guest posting & this is very encouraging.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Thank you SO MUCH!! That means a lot to me. I really, really appreciate it! I wrote this to help others, so it’s fantastic to meet that goal. :)

  • http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/ Denise Dilley

    Thanks for the tips, Jim! I just submitted my first guest post yesterday. Excited but nervous about all the possibilities!

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Awesome! You will LOVE this Friday’s post then because you will totally relate. I’ll leave that as a teaser.. :)

  • http://twitter.com/Sophie_Novak Sophie Novak

    Great tips Jim and at the perfect timing, since I’m presently planning to start with guest posting. You’ve been doing great with it recently and I am sure you’ll keep growing more and more. Thanks!

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Sophie, that is AWESOME!! You will do a fantastic job, I just know it.

  • Michelle Woodman

    Great suggestions, Jim — thanks! I really like how you pointed out the value and importance of relationships over numbers. When we become fixated on numbers, that’s when all the other “don’ts” become so much easier to do. Or maybe it’s just me . . . :-p

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Michelle, I’ve learned the “don’t's” the hard way! Relationships are sooooooo key to everything! :)

  • http://dailygallen.com/ tim gallen

    solid advice, jim! thanks for sharing!

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      You got it Tim. Hope it helps you out. I learned a lot of this the hard way ;) haha

  • http://twitter.com/meltitus Melissa Titus

    Thanks for the tips, Jim!  I’ve seen a few bloggers ask that guest posters provide a byline with their submission with relevant links. What does this look like? I’m not sure what they are looking for.
    For Dallas guest posters you should require chocolate chip cookies from a place called Pokey O’s. they are some the best ones I have ever tasted.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Oooooh Pokey O’s. I might have to have my wife keep an eye out for that while shes in Dallas!! :)

      As to your question, that just means a little bit about you, for example, Jim Woods is a writer, coach and chocolate chip cookie addict from Nashville, TN. You can view his blog here (link) or his Twitter @unknownjim. Something like that. Some blogs have a limit for how long your byline is, some don’t.

      • http://twitter.com/meltitus Melissa Titus

         They do ice cream sandwiches and sell the cookies without the ice cream. Maybe your wife can bring you some of the cookies.  Thanks for clarifying bylines! Glad I asked instead of just assuming I knew. Something I have learned to always do…ask if you don’t know!

        • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

          Oooooooh. I’m texting my wife as soon as I type this!! Glad I could help!!!!!!! :)

  • http://jeremystatton.com/ Jeremy Statton

    Great list, Jim. It was a pleasure for me to have you post on my blog last week. In my opinion, you are very good at building relationships. Keep it going.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Thanks Jeremy. That means a lot. Thank you so much for the kind words!

  • http://intentionaltoday.com/ Ngina Otiende

    Ha! reminds me I didn’t thank Dan Black for hosting me over at his site last week.!  oh boy.

    Love your points.

  • http://chrystalmurphy.com/ Chrystal

    Great tips Jim!

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Thanks Chrystal!!! I really appreciate that!! 

  • http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

    Welcome home, Jim. I’m glad to see you didn’t get lost. ;)
    Can you expand more on what you mean by “Make it resistance.” Not sure I’m following–but it is late and I’m #writestuff brain fried.

    Katie

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Thanks for the great question. I love guest blogging, but guest blogging shouldn’t be the end goal. There needs to be a bigger purpose for why you write.
       The resistance is a term from War of Art where it is basically defined as ANYTHING that can stop you from creating. If you should be working on your novel, and you are guest posting instead, it is resistance. It is stopping you from the work you fear to do because that is your true calling. Hope that helps. Thanks again!! 

      • http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

        Yes, that does help. Thanks for clarifying.

        • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

          Awesome! Glad to help Katie. And you really should check out War of Art. It really helped me put a name to what stops me from creating. I am a huge fan of that book. As well as Do the Work and Turning Pro.

          • http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

            Thanks, I do have War of Art on my list.

            Katie

          • http://dailygallen.com/ tim gallen

            the war of art = mind-blowing kick in the ass. same with do the work. i loved that book! really helps you break through to the essence of what you’re wanting to create. amazing insight.

            haven’t read turning pro yet, but eager to do so.

  • http://www.tammyhelfrich.com/ Tammy Helfrich

    Love it. Great suggestions. You have been an awesome example of guest posting, both on others and hosting people on yours. Thanks!