Are You Working Hard for Nothing?

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Hustle, hustle, hustle.

Grind, grind, grind.

Sleep. (Wait, what is sleep?)

Write, write, write.

Work, work, work.

You need to clearly label what you define as success or all of your hard work is in vain.

Without a goal, you are running nonstop on a treadmill with no end in sight.

Sure you can work really, really hard, but you won’t get anywhere.

The second you put a clear definition of success in front of yourself in the form of a goal, you step off the treadmill, you’re out the door and running down the street.

And most importantly, now you are running toward a specific destination.

Let’s take this one step further and I’ll use myself as an example.

Here is my current definition for success—these specific goals:

1. Finishing up a group project in July and having the final product reach 10,000 people.

2. Growing my coaching business to 10 clients by the end of July.

3. Finishing my own ebook by the end of October and sharing that with 2,000 people.

4. Meet with at least one person for coffee this week.

 

 What’s your definition of success? I’d love to hear it. If you don’t currently have a goal you are pursuing, perhaps you need to make one. Please share it in the comments .

 

  • http://intentionaltoday.com/ Ngina Otiende

    For me, success is living a balanced, purpose-filled life which touches others and leaves a legacy.

    Some of my goals for July 

    -  Write two guest posts
    - Finish editing my ebook
    -  Exercise (atleast 3 times a week)

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Ngina, these are FANTASTIC!! Love it! Great, great goals!!!

  • http://denisedilley.blogspot.com/ Denise Dilley

    Thanks for sharing your goals, Jim!  Here are a few writing goals of mine, in no particular order:

    Establish a blog schedule & stick to it
    Write and submit several pieces to be published as guest posts and/or for online magazines
    Finish my first novel and start the process of getting it published

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Those are great goals Denise! I guest my only question would be what is the time frame for them, so you know which is more pressing than the others? Thanks so much for sharing!!

  • Yvette Carol

    HI Jim *waves*! Will Smith was asked by comedian Graham Norton what were his dreams? Will said, he’d achieved all his dreams, in fact had far exceeded them! For the rest of us mere mortals we may have to accept just a smidge less :-) They say that whatever you’re shooting for, you’ll achieve three quarters of it, which is why you should always aim as high as you possibly can. Never ever under-shoot. So having said that, my goal is to achieve worldwide reknown as a writer of great children’s books… and to achieve the “tail wind” (steady sales of my titles)!! :-)

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Love it Yvette!!!!!!! Fantastic goal!!!!!!!!!!! Great advice too! Thanks for sharing!!!

  • Stephanieblore01

    Love this post – I just wrote down a set of goals for myself this week, they include, 

    Getting my poems for kids uploaded
    Going to the gym at least three days this week
    Finish reading the Writers Manifesto by Jeff Goins

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      So glad you enjoyed the post. I really like the goals you have for this week! Fantastic! They are all completely doable too. That’s great!

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  • http://JaredLatigo.com/ Jared Latigo

    Interesting that I just read a post about profound content and what it is. I’d say this is pretty dang close. Short, concise and to the point. Also really makes me take action…I’ll be going over my goals later this afternoon for sure now! 

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Thanks Jared. I really appreciate that. Love that you are taking action! That’s why I wrote this! Please share what you come up with too. Have a good one and thanks for sharing!!

  • http://aglowingember.blogspot.ca/ Carolynn Anctil

    My definition of success is:

    1.  Maintain my home as a sanctuary and place of peace.
    2.  Nurture and deepen my relationship with my husband.
    3.  Produce a prototype of one of my creative ideas by the end of July and continue to move at least one other forward.
    4.  Live in the moment, with gratitude; judge less; release the concept of perfection; continue to learn; and be open.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Carolynn these are great definitions of success, but I wonder if there is any specific ways you can do these things to kind of hold yourself accountable. Otherwise I would be afraid that you wouldn’t have enough definition for your success. Maybe for #2 you could have a weekly date night when you leave the cell phones in your purse all night. For #4 you could try one new thing each week and blog about the experience and what new thing you tried. Do see what I mean? I absolutely love the concepts though. Those are FANTASTIC! Thanks for sharing!!

  • http://www.wildbillkerr.com/ Wild Bill Kerr

    It took me entirely to long to write one post yesterday. I guess success to me is happy wife, family, me and making progress on my goals. Jim thanks for the tips to help me focus.

    Here are a few of my main goals:

    1. Write 10 awesome posts before I launch my new blog. (1 down 9 to go)
    2. Lift weights 3 times a week. (so I can be in the next Magic Mike movie)
    3. Record, produce, and publish 2 podcasts each week.
    4. Meet some amazing bloggers offline – Who do you know in Oklahoma?
    5. Get back into public speaking and speak at some of the blogging/podcast conferences

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      That’s awesome! Love your goals. Having a happy wife and family is always there too-ABSOLUTELY.
      I do know an awesome blogger in Oklahoma, Kristen Keyser. Her site is theycallmekeeks.com but I think that’s the only friend I have in Oklahoma :) You should contact her though. She’s a great writer and really nice person despite her sometimes shady language ;) haha.

  • http://colebradburn.com/ Cole Bradburn

    Love that you are keeping meeting people in there, it is so crucial.  My only advice with goals (which are great) is don’t lose the forest for the trees.  Make sure the goals are aligned with your purpose and life in every way so contradiction doesn’t find a way to sneak in.  Also, make sure to live in the present while striving for the future (goals).  The present is where creativity dwells.

    • http://intentionaltoday.com/ Ngina Otiende

      Absolutely agree with you, Cole. 

      Goals need to come out of purpose. They are steps to achieving and living purpose.  

  • http://therockstardevotional.blogspot.com/ Clint Hall

    So you’re planning on self-publishing (via eBook) rather than going the more traditional route of finding a literary agent and/or publisher? Can I ask why?

    One of my current goals is finishing my book proposal, so obviously I’m interested.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Clint, thanks for the question. Several reasons: My ebook is going to be short and sweet, more so a manifesto. (At least that’s what it looks like right now.) I think for what I’d like to do even when I produce something longer, it would be better to follow in line more of what Max Dubinsky has done. Do the ebook first, and then put it out as a physical book. It all comes down to what goals and approach you have personally. I don’t think there is one RIGHT way to do things. Best of luck to you!!!!

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    You’ve got some great goals Jim! I especially like how you’re focusing on building your coaching business and finishing you eBook.

    Here are a few of mine -

    Physical: Run 20+ plus 3 times this week
    Business: Finish my ebook by the end of the year
    Business: Do a redesign of the blog (just upgraded to Standard 3.0) with the goal of having a logo and color scheme.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Love it!!! Fantastic goals Joe!! I really like Standard. It seems to be a pleasure to use so far…if you need help with the logo and color scheme I have a friend who can probably help (for a very affordable price).

      • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

        Glad you like the theme as well. Have you signed up for their affiliate program? It’s pretty awesome. Every sale nets you 50%.

        That would be great if you could put me in touch with your friend. I’d like to at least get a quote.

        • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

          Wow, that’s pretty serious there. My friend should be contacting you soon. His name is Darrell. Have a good one!

  • http://deuceology.wordpress.com Larry Carter

    I want to complete my eBook this month and have it ready to distribute by Sept 1.  I haven’t set the goal yet for how many people I want to get it to.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Larry, that is awesome! I’m excited for you. I want to read it, so you can add at least one more to the number of folks you plan on reaching :)